kBoy your post kind of made my day. Love definitely wasn't the plumbline. According to some posts, Miller brought Gary in and I doubt Gary was a full blown narcissist then. We all bought into the power and authority leadership model for different reasons and maybe Gary bought into it to justify his own will for power. Even the shunning and silent treatment when you were going through it were narcissistic.
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PS. I totally acknowledge the invaluable contribution of this post. Furthermore, I would like to thank myself for......